MY DAD HAS THE SAME AS YOUR MUM VASCULAR DEMENTIA. HE ALSO IS ON QUETIAPINE. MY DAD CANNOT STORE ANYTHING IN HIS MEMORY. HE ALSO BECOMES VERY SCAREED   IF WE TAKE HIM OUT ANYWHERE IT COMPLETELY CONFUSES HIM. ITS UPSETTING AS YOU CAN SEE THE FEAR IN HIS FACE. MY DAD LIVES WITH ME AND MY FAMILIE. HE HAS DONE FOR 5 YEARS NOW. HE WAS AWAY IN A NURSING HOME BUT ONLY FOR 10 MONTHS AS I SAW HE WAS DETERIATING VERY FAST. SO I BROUGHT HIM HOME.MY FATHER WAS A VERY FIT MAN UP UNTIL 5 YEAR AGO. THEN HE HAD AN OPERSATION ON HIS MAIL ARTERY. THE WENT ON TO HAVE A BRAIN HEMMORAGE HEART ATTACK AND STROKE AND THEN MRSA. HE WAS ON A LIFE SUPPORT FOR 13 WEEKS CRITICAL. IN HOSPITAL 7 MONTHS IN ALL. THE HE CAME HOME AND WE LOST MY MUM SUDDENLY. HE HAD NO SIGNS OF DEMENTIA WHE HE WAS TAKEN ILL. I HAVE TO ALSO THAT I FIND MY DADS A LOT BETTER ON THIS MEDICATION. AS BEFORE THAT EH WAS VIOLENT. BUT THANK GOD THATS STOPPED NOW. THE ONLY THING I CAN SAY TO YOU IS. STAY STRONG AND TAKE EACH DAY AS IT COMES.