Care Homes
2. Making your decision
Often a move into a care home is suggested because of some crisis - maybe an illness or a fall - but it is not always the only solution.
Think about why you are considering moving into a care home. Is it mainly because other people advise it? Or do you really want to make the move? Your family and friends, or people like your doctor or social worker, can help you to work out what you want to do. But it is up to you to make the final decision about what is best.
Have you considered other options? Sheltered housing may be the ideal choice for you. Or you may prefer to get help to stay in your own home. It is also possible to just have a short stay in a care home. This section looks at each of these options.
Help to stay in your own home
You may be able to receive help in your own home, such as meals-on-wheels, or help with bathing or shopping. Or it might be possible for you to have your home adapted or have equipment provided to help you to live at home. See our free advice leaflet Help in Your Home for advice.
A community alarm enables you to remain independent with the peace of mind that you can contact a response centre at any time of the day or night just by pressing a button on your phone or a pendant round your neck. See our free leaflet Housing Matters for more advice.
Sheltered housing
Sheltered housing might be more appropriate for you. You would still have the independence of living in your own self-contained flat, but with an alarm system and warden or scheme manager on hand to assist in emergencies. Different types of sheltered housing provide varying levels of service and care. Some have communal areas and have group activities. Others, known as ‘extra care’ or ‘very sheltered housing’, provide meals and some personal care. Our information sheet no. 2 Sheltered Housing has more information about the various types of sheltered housing schemes and who provides them.
Trial periods or respite care
A stay in a care home doesn't have to be permanent. You might want to stay in a care home just for a short period to give youself a chance to recover after an illness or to give your carer a break. Most homes keep beds free for respite care.
If you are worried about whether living in a care home is the right choice for you, you can arrange to stay in a home as a temporary resident to see how you get on.
Moving in to a care home
If you think that a care home is the right choice for you, it is important to make the move as positive a step as possible. Moving into a care home can be a big relief for people who've been struggling at home or have become isolated.
Care homes can offer a secure and comfortable environment and the opportunity to be in the company of other people.
